Pick Up Lines to Use on Guys


Do you believe in love at first sight—or should I walk by again?

A pick-up line is supposed to accomplish these two “I’s” (1): intrigue and initiate. It should catch the interest of the man you’re interested in and the interest is reciprocated. That will lead to a further conversation.

What works? What doesn’t?

Pick-up lines do work. Just not always. The ones that highlight a man’s athleticism, culture, wealth, and generosity were most likely successful in leading to further conversation says one study. That’s opposed to the ones that contained empty compliments or were overtly sexual. (2)

What about women? Do they work too? An online experiment tested three forms of pick-up lines that women use: direct (e.g., “Can I have your number?”, “You’re cute.”), flippant (e.g., “Since you’re alone and I’m alone, why don’t we sit together?”, “I’m easy, are you?”), and innocuous (e.g., “Where did you get that tattoo? Did it hurt?”, “Hi.”). It was conducted by Maryanne Fisher of Saint Mary’s University in Halifax, Canada.

The results revealed the most successful approach is being direct. Innocuous lines were the least preferred. Men considered all forms of pick-up lines as effective coming from women they perceived as attractive. The results changed for women seen as less attractive. Flippant pick-up lines appeared to work best. (3)

And Our Expert Says…

Hayley Quinn

Dating Coach

Best Pick Up Lines to Use on Guys That Will Surely Bear The Desired Results


If he doesn’t visibly see you, you prevent him from having the chance to start the conversation.

Visibility means…

  • Don’t just run over to your friend when you walk into a party.
  • Don’t hide behind a newspaper.
  • It means if he looks at you, return his gaze and smile.
  • When you enter a room, walk around it.
  • When you’re at a bar, turn your bar stool at an angle to face out.



A lot of men don’t think they can approach you; their biggest fear is rejection.

MITIGATE his fear of rejection by just moving closer to him.



  • Ask him a question
    nice and safe, but not all that sexy
  • Make an observation
    usually very slick but requires some thought
  • Be direct.
    high risk, high reward as pick up artists would say asking him a question
  • Make it playful to ensure he understands you’re not just making a logical request of him
    i.e. instead of ‘Do you mind if I take this seat?’, you want to say. ‘Do you mind if I steal this seat?’
  • Add in your personal opinion on the subject so that you give him a clear springboard to continue the interaction.
    i.e. instead of ‘can you pass me the menu?’, you want to say, ‘can you pass me the menu please? I like to look although I always end up ordering a G&T.’ asking him a question



Use this deceptively simple phrases

  • ‘Excuse me, I just had to say, I like how…’
  • ‘I like how…’ a conversation starter that is pretty ‘safe’ and also pretty ‘sexy’. You choose the scale you want to work in.



  • comment on something eternal that you both observe:
  • “I like how we’re the first people to arrive.”
  • “I like how busy it is in here, we’re never going to get to the bar.”



  • direct the observation towards him:
  • “I like how everyone else has abided by the dress code… except us.”
  • “I like how you’re secretly pushing in at the bar.”
  • “I like how you’re reading a real book.”



There’s an irony that as I write this, the most ‘out there’, exciting way to start an interaction is just to say ‘hello’…. or probably ‘hey (sexy pause)…’

  • Why this is so controversial (and compelling) is as follows:
  • It requires exceptionally good non-verbal signals to communicate attraction.
  • There’s no getting away from your intent. You are flirting with him. You are being direct. You have just flipped the script.
  • There’s no clear route into a conversation. High risk, high reward.


How to come up with an effective pick-up line?

Context. It’s an important key to a pick-up line that works. Many pick-up lines don’t work because they are based on someone’s looks. That can come across as offensive. (1)

Trying too much to be funny also can be a huge turn-off. Worried about it? Try other conversation starters, like if you’re at a friend’s party, ask how he knows the host or what he has been up to lately. Improvise. Look around for inspiration.

What to do when your pick-up line works?

  • Be genuine. Never lie about yourself. Don’t exaggerate. Pay attention to what he says. Listen to get hints on how to move the conversation along. (1)
  • Excuse yourself with utmost respect if the person you’re talking to starts feeling uncomfortable.

What to do when your pick-up line didn’t work?

Don’t take rejection personally and always be respectful. Always.

Funny Pick Up Lines for Girls to Use on Guys

A cool way to start the relationship is with a laugh. Try one of our funny pick-up lines on him:

  • Hey, I’ve got to tell you something — ABCDEFG! I can’t stop myself, because you’re just my type!
  • Have you ever been to the Dali Museum? Cause you’re truly a work of art.
  • Are you from Mars? Because I feel like my heart has been abducted!
  • Do you believe in love at first sight—or should I walk by again?
  • Give me your name so I know what to scream tonight.
  • Are you religious? Because you’re the answer to all my prayers.
  • Your eyes are bluer than the Atlantic ocean. And I don’t mind being lost at sea!
  • Is there an airport nearby, or was that just my heart taking off?
  • Aside from being drop-dead gorgeous, what do you do for a living?
  • If you were a chicken, you’d be impeccable.

Sexy Pick Up Lines to Say to Guys

Sometimes sexy pick-up lines can be a perfect choice to let him know you are looking for an intimate relationship. Here are some lines to use:

  • I’m definitely going to need a shower because I want you to be my dirty little secret.
  • Is it hot in here, or is it just us?
  • Your lips look lonely. Let me introduce them to mine.
  • You’re so sweet, you’re giving me a toothache.
  • You don’t need keys to drive me crazy.
  • You’re definitely on my to-do list tonight.
  • I lost my teddy bear. Can I sleep with you tonight?
  • I’m going to give you a kiss. If you don’t like it, just return it.
  • Let’s save water by taking a shower together.
  • Do you play soccer? Because you’re a keeper!!

Flirty Pick Up Lines for Men

Flirty lines can be highly effective in getting a man interested:

  • You can kiss me if I’m wrong. But the earth is flat, right?
  • Are you a camera? Because every time I look at you, I smile.
  • Aside from being sexy what do you do for a living?
  • Can I borrow a kiss? I swear I’ll give it back.
  • Life without you is like a broken pencil…pointless.
  • You look so familiar… didn’t we take a class together? I could’ve sworn we had chemistry.
  • Four plus four equals eight, but you plus me equals fate.
  • When was the last time you kissed a girl?
  • Kiss me if I’m wrong, but dinosaurs do still exist, don’t they?
  • Was your dad a boxer? Because you’re a knockout!

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