Make the first move. Tell your man your fancies. It can be in spicing up your relationship. Send your partner a text to tell him how you are fantasizing about him. It’s a powerful way to light his fire.
“Sexting” (“sex” and “texting”) has become common among couples who want to add fuel to their relationship. Sweet-talking has amped up in this digital age.
Men, like women, want to feel desired. Women initiating sex can be totally hot and yet isn’t very common, suggests Dr. Jessica O’Reilly, a sex and relationship expert, in Astroglide.
Women seem to have a notion if their partner would let her know when he is in the mood. “This, of course, isn’t necessarily the case,” Dr. O’Reilly rebuts. “Men aren’t always comfortable initiating sex and they aren’t always in the mood for sex either—sometimes you need to help put him in the mood.” (1)
Sexting can be perfect version foreplay. It can be a fun, flirty, little adventure with your partner, says Kait Scalisi, a sex educator, and founder of Passion by Kait. (2) Sexting helps bring excitement into the relationship and rekindles the intense feelings and passion from early on. Couples also sext for non-sexual reasons, such as by doing their partner a favor in return for something, like a romantic gift or a dinner date. (3)
Be sure that you and your partner are comfortable with sexting before you engage in it. Know the limits of each of you to avoid crossing the line. Be sure to figure out some ways to sext securely. Here are some tips to get you started:
⦁ Timing is important. You don’t want to cause your partner any trouble with sexually-explicit messages. Ask your partner about the ideal time. Having a secret code, like NSFW (not safe for work), also may help. Not only will your messages be safe but it will excite your partner simply by spotting “the code.”
⦁ Pacing. Don’t flaunt all the way all at once. Leave something to his imagination.
⦁ Naughty and talking dirty. Don’t think too much about sounding silly or cheesy. Grab the moment to be candid about your fantasies, particularly if you’re too shy to say them in real life.
⦁ Be creative. It only might take a set of emojis to heat up your sexts.
Emojis to use for sexting
Below are some of the popular sexually-suggestive emojis that you can use to spice up your sexts:
Emojis and their meaning (5,6):
🍆 (eggplant) – symbolizes a penis
🥕 (carrot) – symbolizes a penis
🍌 (banana) – a penis; unclothing a man
🍒 (cherries) – a man’s testicles
🍑 (peach) – butt
🌮 (taco) – a woman’s genitals; vagina
🥠 (fortune cookie) – vagina
🌭 (hotdog in a bun) – sex; anal sex
🍭 (lollipop) – insinuates licking
🐫 (camel with humps) – insinuates humping
🔥 (fire) – hot
🎆 (fireworks) – orgasm
♋ (Cancer birth sign) – “69” sex position
👆👉👈 (finger, pointing) – fingering (sexual act)
😏 (smirking face) – implying sex
🥳 (party face) – blowing (sexual act)
🤤 (drooling face) – drooling over someone
👄 (mouth) – lips or mouth for sexual stimulation
👅 (tongue) – tongue for sexual stimulation
💥 (explosion) – orgasm
💦 (sweatdrops) – sweaty from the sexual act; bodily fluid, e.g., semen
👉👌 (finger, pointing + OK hand) – sexual intercourse
Long Sexting Paragraphs for Him
You can be very clear and explicit with one of these long sexting paragraphs for him:
- People think they only way to have pleasurable moments is when they make love, but really you can also have pleasurable moments by sending these real freaky paragraphs which I am sending right now? What are you doing? Thinking about me or the crazy real freaky things we did yesterday? You were so crazy and were simply all over me wanting me again and again. I did not have enough of you because you were just vibrating all over? You were surprised? Yes you taught me to do crazy things to you and now I am going to start without ever stopping. I want to be in your head every morning, noon and night. I want my love to be what you think of every day. I want to do freaky things to you. I want you to want me like never before. You taught me to love, to be passionate and to get really freaky. Now I have learned from you, see the reason for my real freaky paragraphs? You are so in trouble and there is nothing you can do about it. I am coming for you in the craziest way ever! When I get you, I would do crazy things to your body. I love you!
- I want you to hold me so tight. I want you to lick me all over! I want to perform your art on me! I want to have every reason to moan and scream your name! I want you to kiss me so badly making me want you in sweet and reckless abandon! You are my sweet craving!
- I want to use my hands to make traces of lines all over your thick masculine skin. I want to tweak the hairy nape of your neck until you scream in pure bliss. I want to scratch your back and get you meowing like a cat. I want to whisper freaky messages into your ears, lick it as well and get you to forget your name. I want to pour cold ice cream on your chest and lick it off with my tongue! I want to rub you from your pants and make you throb in pure delight. I want to make me want me in the craziest way ever!
⦁ I would throw you on the bed and slowly take off your boxers. Then I would stare at your long hard cock. I would slowly move my finger up the side of your dick. After that I would very slowly lick the side of your penis. I would swirl my tongue around the head of your dick. Then I’d suck on just the tip of your throbbing hard cock. I would then tickle and lick your balls… you want me to suck your dick already, but not yet.
- I rarely get so wet and freaky, but the manner you handled me last night. It was the most pleasurable moment of my life. You made me vibrate so hard that I want to feel the spasms of pleasure yet again. Today, I have been unable to concentrate because I can’t still feel your hands all over my body. What can I ever do to get these thoughts off my head. It seemed as if it was a process that was not completed. Please find time and complete what you have already started because right now. My body is on fire! I just crave for you so bad that I could leave whatever I am doing, jump into the next car and come running to you! I want to get really freaky with you my love!
- You have turned me into a woman I have always wanted to be; daring, passionate and romantic. You have made me really freaky and now it is time to send real freaky paragraphs to you. I don’t know what else to do, I am just lost within my passion without you. What have you done to me? How did you get me this crazy in love. Your hands are something else when it comes to getting a lady drooling and wanting to be freaky. Your touches are so s*xy and sensual that I never wanted you to stop whatever it was you were doing! Baby, please we need to try this again, you need to save me from getting turned out whenever you try those stunts on me. We need to do this over and over again, maybe 2,3 or 4 more times. I need to get to the highest peak of all with you!
Short Kinky Paragraphs to Say to Your Boyfriend
Never worry about being kinky. These short sexting paragraphs are kinky and leave little to his imagination:
- I want to suck your cock until I make you cum all over my chest.
- I want you to slap my ass and pull my hair while giving it to me Doggy style.
- I just got some new s*xy panties delivered. You are going to see the whole of my s*xiness and crave for more of it.
- I love the way you drag my hair to the back with reckless abandon. I love it with you push me in such a forceful manner. Can we do it over and over again?
- I Miss You. Between My Legs
- Babe, I’m Wet. And I Have You To Blame For It
Freaky Paragraphs about Intense Sex to Make Him Horny
Share some of these freaky paragraphs with your boyfriend to make him want you even more:
- I want to shove you onto the bed, crawl in between your legs, and suck your cock until I feel your cum cover my tongue.
- If I asked you to give me a list of all your favorite love-making positions. Where will the missionary style be in the your list?
- Just came out of shower and my towel seems missing. Wanna search it with me?
- I don’t like sitting here at work when I could be at home doing filthy things to you.
- I just found this cool sex site on the internet…it gave me some awesome ideas for later!!
Paragraph Samples to Copy and Paste for Those Who Want To Be Freaky
Here you go. These paragraphs will work when you don’t have enough time to make up a freaky paragraph for your boyfriend, but still want to send something to get him aroused:
- I want to mark you as mine; that’s why I’ve been sharpening my nails.
- I’ve been daydreaming all day long… you and me naked moaning and sweaty…got anything to add to that vision?
- You need to come see me asap…I’m getting moist just thinking about you
- Just wanted to let you know that I find the fragrance of your body so appealing and seducing that I want to feel the warmth of your neck on my lips and the sweetness of your lips on my earlobes.
- Currently, I am sending you texts using one hand because the other one is busy somewhere else. Guess where it is?
- I am dirty and going to have a shower. But when I return, I want you to make me dirty again.
Dirty Paragraphs for Him to Use in Talk to Turn Him On
Sexting paragraphs devoted to him are a useful tool in the struggle for your man’s attention. Try these:
- Hope you’re rested, cause you’re gonna need every ounce of energy you can find tonight
- What if I offer you three wishes and grant them all? What would you like to do in bed tonight?
- I have a few things in mind we can do, instead of just talking tonight!
- What is the dirtiest thought you have had about me? I already know mine!
- I dreamt about you last night and it was so hot, I woke up turned on.
Detailed Paragraph for Sexting to Send to a Guy
Details are very important when we are talking about sex. One of these paragraphs will get you started:
- How about we pretend we’re auditioning for a porn flick? Could you send me some videos? Videos that you haven’t send to someone else. Do you remember once I told you about that kinky sex thing to try tonight is the time to try it, all I wanted to ask is? Are you ready to feel that kinky experience?
- I`ll start by whispering into your ear and then bite your neck, I`ll carry on till I hear your heavy breathing and I’ll move to your mouth, kissing you, tonguing you and teasing. I`ll go back to biting your neck, feeling your warm breath against mine, then sitting you up and carrying on kissing and biting onto your neck.
- I can barely concentrate; I just keep thinking about you grabbing me and taking me. If these people weren’t here, I would be on my knees with your cock in my mouth. Guess what color my panties are?
- Just wanted to let you know that I find the fragrance of your body so appealing and seducing that I want to feel the warmth of your neck on my lips and the sweetness of your lips on my earlobes. I am ready if you invite me to take tour of your insides and make love to me throughout this sexy night.
- I love it when you roll your tongue around my nipples and then exhale slowly with that hot damp breath of yours…makes me shudder inside. Just had a daydream about us…do you have any idea how wet I am right now thinking about you?
Descriptive Letters to Your Boyfriend to Be Freaky
Freaky paragraphs like these will arouse his interest and everything else:
- You made my hair all scattered and messy. You gripped me in a hot way last week when we made out. I had so much fun being with you, and I am thinking about you right not with the thoughts of how you gripped and kissing vivid in my head. I am waiting for you again this week. I want you to kiss me so bad and scatter my hair, and let your hands run all through my body sending fire of emotion and setting up the fire of passion in me. I have been trying to read on building the fire of passion and getting real freaky with your partner and I just can’t wait to try it out with you!
- I would like to invite you over for the weekend, however, I cannot guarantee that I can keep my hands to myself. I was just thinking about you and me and suddenly, I found myself completely undressed and wet down under.
- Do you remember once I told you about that kinky sex thing to try tonight is the time to try it, all I wanted to ask is? Are you ready to feel that kinky experience? I am dying to touch you there!
- What is your one sexual fantasy you always wanted to try, but never build the courage to do it? Stop texting and sending tempting images on phone, just come here and do whatever you feel like doing with me I won’t resist.
- I am going to blow your mind and then blow something else later. I want you to take me and put me exactly how you want me so I know exactly what to do. You are going to be in full control of my body.
Depraved Paragraphs to Send to Your Naughty Boyfriend
Are you or your boyfriend too naughty? The time for punishment has come! Send some interesting paragraphs to your boyfriend to warn him of ways how you`ll punish him this night:
- I’m dying to find out if you are as good in real life as you are in my fantasies.
- That ass could hold my bowl of cereal breakfast for long hours. They’ve got some badass cups men!
- You look hot, sexy and appealing when you wear nothing.
- There is something about you grabbing my hair at the back of my head that makes me just melt.
- When I saw you walk in, I could feel myself instantly get aroused.
- Make me scream and come louder than you’ve ever heard in your life.
Universal Examples of Freaky Sexting Paragraphs for Him
Sexting is a really great way to be freaky wherever you are. Here are some hot paragraphs that will come in handy:
- I know you’re not a wizard, but I think your mouth is pretty magical. I can think of a few places I want it right now. Wait, maybe you ARE a wizard.
- I want us to try the craziest s*x position ever. I have been wishing and dreaming it for so long that I go crazy whenever I think about it.
- Get out of the gym sweetheart and save some energy for the Bang-Bang. I am going to make love to you and drive you wild between my legs tonight.
- What color bra do you think I’m wearing?
- You look so hot in jeans and a T-shirt.
- How would you like it if moved my tongue up and down your shaft and around your sack?
- Korin Miller. (2016, March 16). 6 Ways to Initiate Sex That Will Have Your Partner Panting. Women’s Health; Women’s Health. https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a19936069/how-to-initiate-sex/
- Jalili, C. (2018). How to Sext: The Ultimate Guide to Sexting. The Cut. https://www.thecut.com/article/sexting-how-to-ultimate-guide.html
- Research: Despite what you might think, sexting isn’t just about sex. (2019). EurekAlert!